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		<title>By: Ephedra.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 10:03:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Steve Y</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steve Y</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2008 15:54:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, these myths are the tenants from the Church of the Mighty Dollar. While the article has some wisdom as far as financial discipline, saving for a rainy day, etc. it misses on several cylinders. Yes, money in our society equates to security and a necessity to some extent. However, the question that often is missed is &#039;How much is enough?&quot; and &quot;What misery are you willing to experience to get enough?&quot; in a goal oriented society, I think that people tend to focus entirely too much on the goal of &#039;financial security&#039; and miss out on the grand trip of life. 

Some of the poorest people in the US would be considered wealthy in other unfortunate countries.  The lifestyle of the average American in many ways exceeds that of the wealthiest people who lived a century ago.  Instead of celebrating these wonderful facts, we tend to compare ourselves to the Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous. Longing for more. The Church of the Mighty Dollar creates expectations that are way too high, which results in an unhealthy lust for money, and fear of loss. All this can get in the way of enjoying the moment and the other things that have great value around us, like our relationships with family, friends, and community. 

I think that it is more correct to say that &#039;Money can buy some happiness, the rest is up to you.&#039;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, these myths are the tenants from the Church of the Mighty Dollar. While the article has some wisdom as far as financial discipline, saving for a rainy day, etc. it misses on several cylinders. Yes, money in our society equates to security and a necessity to some extent. However, the question that often is missed is &#8216;How much is enough?&#8221; and &#8220;What misery are you willing to experience to get enough?&#8221; in a goal oriented society, I think that people tend to focus entirely too much on the goal of &#8216;financial security&#8217; and miss out on the grand trip of life. </p>
<p>Some of the poorest people in the US would be considered wealthy in other unfortunate countries.  The lifestyle of the average American in many ways exceeds that of the wealthiest people who lived a century ago.  Instead of celebrating these wonderful facts, we tend to compare ourselves to the Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous. Longing for more. The Church of the Mighty Dollar creates expectations that are way too high, which results in an unhealthy lust for money, and fear of loss. All this can get in the way of enjoying the moment and the other things that have great value around us, like our relationships with family, friends, and community. </p>
<p>I think that it is more correct to say that &#8216;Money can buy some happiness, the rest is up to you.&#8217;</p>
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		<title>By: My Get Things Done List &#187; Blog Archive &#187; List Extravaganza: 5000 tips on 100 lists [How to be an Original]</title>
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		<dc:creator>My Get Things Done List &#187; Blog Archive &#187; List Extravaganza: 5000 tips on 100 lists [How to be an Original]</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 05:17:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 22 useless myths that can cost you money [...]</description>
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		<title>By: ???</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2008 06:13:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A couple of things:
1. Never wish for wealth, especially when you live in generally poor areas. If worst comes to worst, the poor will all end up in tents and the rich will get richer. Unfortunately for the rich, the poor have rebelled against them, and money doesn&#039;t make good barricades.
2. Money really doesn&#039;t come from trees, it comes from cotton. Therefore, all we must do to get wealthy is own a cotton plantation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A couple of things:<br />
1. Never wish for wealth, especially when you live in generally poor areas. If worst comes to worst, the poor will all end up in tents and the rich will get richer. Unfortunately for the rich, the poor have rebelled against them, and money doesn&#8217;t make good barricades.<br />
2. Money really doesn&#8217;t come from trees, it comes from cotton. Therefore, all we must do to get wealthy is own a cotton plantation.</p>
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		<title>By: The 7 Habits of Highly Successful Moneymakers at Ririan Project</title>
		<link>http://ririanproject.com/2007/04/06/22-useless-myths-that-can-cost-you-money/comment-page-1/#comment-29129</link>
		<dc:creator>The 7 Habits of Highly Successful Moneymakers at Ririan Project</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Nov 2007 23:50:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 7. Feel entitled to your moneybags. Do you feel positive about money? Do you think there is not enough to go around, or that you should feel ashamed and guilty if you have more than someone else? If you believe millionaires are scrambling to gobble more of the pie at the expense of others, you&#8217;re not thinking like one. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] 7. Feel entitled to your moneybags. Do you feel positive about money? Do you think there is not enough to go around, or that you should feel ashamed and guilty if you have more than someone else? If you believe millionaires are scrambling to gobble more of the pie at the expense of others, you&#8217;re not thinking like one. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Niedzielne linki &#171; Doodge&#8217;owy przemyślnik</title>
		<link>http://ririanproject.com/2007/04/06/22-useless-myths-that-can-cost-you-money/comment-page-1/#comment-19491</link>
		<dc:creator>Niedzielne linki &#171; Doodge&#8217;owy przemyślnik</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Sep 2007 09:35:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 22 Useless Myths That Can Cost You Money - czyli 22 bardzo kosztowne mity. W jak wiele z nich wierzycie? Moim zdaniem najciekawsze w nich jest to, że większość jest w oczywisty sposób pozbawiona jakiejkolwiek logiki, a mimo to tak często tłumaczą naszą bezczynność. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] 22 Useless Myths That Can Cost You Money &#8211; czyli 22 bardzo kosztowne mity. W jak wiele z nich wierzycie? Moim zdaniem najciekawsze w nich jest to, że większość jest w oczywisty sposób pozbawiona jakiejkolwiek logiki, a mimo to tak często tłumaczą naszą bezczynność. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Jill Draper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jill Draper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jul 2007 07:01:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;There are problems that money just can’t solve, and although it may be difficult to swallow, being poor is one of them. People who are financially strapped are that way for a reason, and giving them money will never touch that reason - all it will do is enable them to avoid solving the problem that’s making them poor.&quot;

Giving people money never solves the problem that makes people poor? I&#039;m sorry, and know I love your site, but I&#039;m shocked to see this kind of generalization so cruelly applied to a broad (and growing) swath of our country.

When manufacturing jobs leave, they take everything away but the people left trying to struggle to get ahead. Illness, and medical bills, a job loss, a sick child, an ailing parent--all of these things are mitigating factors.

There is no inherent sin in poverty, anymore than exists in other stratas of society. The logic used above could make the case that &quot;people who have amassed more money than they could spend in several incarnations are craven, amoral, manipulative war criminals and profiteers--how will they solve their problem of being so rich they don&#039;t have to care about the rest of humanity unless we take their money away from them?&quot;

Now while this may be a solid argument for a subset of this demographic, its patently unfair to extend the logic that works so well with neo-cons to the wider population of wealthy people.

Remember when Hugh Grant hooker embarrassment several years back? I recently read an interview with that same woman, and she thanked Hugh Grant for inadvertently putting her children through private schools in good neighborhoods, and for turning a prison of hopelessness into a solid, secure and prosperous life.

Money got thrown, things got done. Just because there were inherent flaws in the Great Society doesn&#039;t mean that providing a net for the least among us isn&#039;t a valuable, important thing to do. The superiority we might feel for our own success is likely more vulnerable than we ourselves feel.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;There are problems that money just can’t solve, and although it may be difficult to swallow, being poor is one of them. People who are financially strapped are that way for a reason, and giving them money will never touch that reason &#8211; all it will do is enable them to avoid solving the problem that’s making them poor.&#8221;</p>
<p>Giving people money never solves the problem that makes people poor? I&#8217;m sorry, and know I love your site, but I&#8217;m shocked to see this kind of generalization so cruelly applied to a broad (and growing) swath of our country.</p>
<p>When manufacturing jobs leave, they take everything away but the people left trying to struggle to get ahead. Illness, and medical bills, a job loss, a sick child, an ailing parent&#8211;all of these things are mitigating factors.</p>
<p>There is no inherent sin in poverty, anymore than exists in other stratas of society. The logic used above could make the case that &#8220;people who have amassed more money than they could spend in several incarnations are craven, amoral, manipulative war criminals and profiteers&#8211;how will they solve their problem of being so rich they don&#8217;t have to care about the rest of humanity unless we take their money away from them?&#8221;</p>
<p>Now while this may be a solid argument for a subset of this demographic, its patently unfair to extend the logic that works so well with neo-cons to the wider population of wealthy people.</p>
<p>Remember when Hugh Grant hooker embarrassment several years back? I recently read an interview with that same woman, and she thanked Hugh Grant for inadvertently putting her children through private schools in good neighborhoods, and for turning a prison of hopelessness into a solid, secure and prosperous life.</p>
<p>Money got thrown, things got done. Just because there were inherent flaws in the Great Society doesn&#8217;t mean that providing a net for the least among us isn&#8217;t a valuable, important thing to do. The superiority we might feel for our own success is likely more vulnerable than we ourselves feel.</p>
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		<title>By: J.C.</title>
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		<dc:creator>J.C.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jul 2007 11:42:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>EXCELLENT !  EXCELLENT  !</description>
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		<title>By: How to Solve Money Worries Blog Carnival</title>
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		<dc:creator>How to Solve Money Worries Blog Carnival</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jun 2007 09:40:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Ririan presents 22 Useless Myths That Can Cost You Money posted at Ririan Project. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: How to be an Original</title>
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		<dc:creator>How to be an Original</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jun 2007 00:34:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;List Extravaganza: 5000 tips on 100 lists...&lt;/strong&gt;

I set myself the challenge to compile a list of lists, counting down from 100 to 1. The items on the list deal with self-improvement, productivity, language, money, entrepreneurship, leadership, simplicity, love, blogging, health and the environment. O...</description>
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<p>I set myself the challenge to compile a list of lists, counting down from 100 to 1. The items on the list deal with self-improvement, productivity, language, money, entrepreneurship, leadership, simplicity, love, blogging, health and the environment. O&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Sean</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2007 22:44:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent post! Unfortunately, far too many people embrace these myths as truth. To the anti-capitalist Coury—you really did miss the point, didn&#039;t you? Re-read myth #3. Wealth does not equal materialism...unless you call giving all your money to charities materialistic. You can&#039;t help anybody unless you have the means to do so. Many of the humanitarian organizations in this great country exist and operate solely on private donations from wealthy people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post! Unfortunately, far too many people embrace these myths as truth. To the anti-capitalist Coury—you really did miss the point, didn&#8217;t you? Re-read myth #3. Wealth does not equal materialism&#8230;unless you call giving all your money to charities materialistic. You can&#8217;t help anybody unless you have the means to do so. Many of the humanitarian organizations in this great country exist and operate solely on private donations from wealthy people.</p>
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		<title>By: Adventures In Money Making</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adventures In Money Making</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 May 2007 04:49:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kwitcherbitchin!!!!

good post.</description>
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<p>good post.</p>
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