Comments on: Making people happy, it’s good for them, it’s better for you! http://ririanproject.com/2009/10/17/making-people-happy-its-good-for-them-its-better-for-you/ A personal development blog! Wed, 17 Mar 2010 14:34:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Ideas With A Kick http://ririanproject.com/2009/10/17/making-people-happy-its-good-for-them-its-better-for-you/comment-page-1/#comment-202076 Ideas With A Kick Sun, 18 Oct 2009 14:40:06 +0000 http://ririanproject.com/?p=833#comment-202076 Always nice to read ideas about happiness. Making people happy, and honestly showing them what they mean to you can be a great way to crate an emotional bond and build strong relations. But (with me, there's usually a but) I also think this making people happy thing can be dangerous business. If you feel the need to always make people happy and you are dependent of their approval. Approval seeking is often seen as needy by others and it can easily backfire. So, make people happy, but with no strings attached. Eduard Always nice to read ideas about happiness. Making people happy, and honestly showing them what they mean to you can be a great way to crate an emotional bond and build strong relations.

But (with me, there’s usually a but) I also think this making people happy thing can be dangerous business. If you feel the need to always make people happy and you are dependent of their approval. Approval seeking is often seen as needy by others and it can easily backfire. So, make people happy, but with no strings attached.

Eduard

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