Guest post by Roman Soluk from Optimistic Lifestyle (www.oplife.org)
Very often people are unaware of their abilities; they do not know what talent they have. People are too lazy to engage in self-discovery. Many do not even think that they have a talent. And only a case can suddenly show our abilities, which can be hidden inside of us.
How to find your buried talent?
All children obtain not even one, but plenty of talents. And everything depends on the environment in which they grow. We must notice and create good conditions in order to develop at least one of these talents. These children in future can become artists, musicians, sportsmen, scientists, can speak many foreign languages. All this is inside everyone, and depending on conditions it can be easily, or not so easily, developed. Talented people today are considered to be some kind of “elite”, they are famous, people talk about them, mass media write about them. But there are few of them in the world, so what about the rest… where is their talent? The answer is simple – it is buried inside of them.
Talent is a gift multiplied by your efforts. It can be discovered when working hard on it. It’s never too
During ages three to seven, interest begins to shift from wanting autonomy to concern for “Who am I (as a boy or a girl)?” Awareness of one’s sexual identity becomes important. Boys tend to seek their mother’s attention; girls may act to get their fathers to notice them. Parents are often confused by a son’s remark that “I’m going to marry Mama when I grow up” or a daughter’s remark that “I wish Mama would go away so I could have Daddy to myself.” Another difficult crisis exists for children who did not happen to be born the “right” sex to please their parents. They are in the constant process of deciding what kind of person to be and developing a sense of purpose for living.
