Posts Tagged ‘sleep’

October7

The Importance of Focusing on What You Want

By: Ririan

Have you noticed that if you buy a watch or a new car, you will suddenly see those things everywhere you go? There will be more ads on TV for those things, you will notice other people with them. Everywhere you go, in magazines, on billboards, and other people, will have the same things or the same make, etc. This is not because there is a little man following you around and placing specific adverts everywhere to get your attention. These ads were there all along, it is just that they were not the focus of your attention before.

People who are successful have this ability even without something being brought to their attention like this. They have their goals and objectives in mind all the time and focus on achieving them. Because of this positive mental attitude, they are ready for all the opportunities as they arise and they are prepared. Unsuccessful people probably would not notice the opportunity because they are not completely in tune with what they want. The opportunities just pass them by because they just do not even notice them.

Maintaining this level of focus all the time is very hard. It can take up a lot of mental energy and leave you feeling tired and exhausted. Some people have this ability naturally. They are more goal-oriented and their brain analyzes everything it comes across to see if it is an opportunity that they could possibly use. They even file away things in their brain and if the chance or need arises, they recall that there was a chance they could take. This is increasingly more difficult in today’s world. There are many things around to diffuse our focus and which clamor for our attention.

Focus is just not popular in popular culture today. We watch the news and instead of just the news, they also show the weather and three other bits of news in tickers across the bottom of the screen. We want to be working and playing and living all at the same time. So those people who can master the technique of staying in focus and having their goals constantly at the front of their minds are going to do the best.

These people who are dedicated and committed to their goals, are those who eat, sleep and think about not much besides. In every conversation they have with people, in every news story they read, they have one objective in mind, whether it is to make more money, or to discover something through research, or their art. And these are exactly the people who seem to be luckier than others because they suddenly find a rich sponsor, or just the right materials they need, or a mote of brilliance.

It is not that they are luckier. They are just more alert to opportunities and know that every new encounter is not a problem but a possible solution to something. Try it in your own life. Imagine that you have a highly important goal in life and look out for chances in your day to day life which could help you to achieve that goal. Explore things with an open mind and you might just get the luck to achieve your goals too.

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January30

Tips for a Better Night’s Sleep

By: RirianProject

A colleague of mine pointed out that she noticed a new trend among business owners – everyone seems to be working later. It got me thinking about sleep. I did a quick Google search to do some research on the topic and found an interesting tidbit that indicates that I am NOT sleeping too well, and I wonder how many other of our readers fit into that same category.

The research I did indicated that you should wake up in the morning feeling refreshed without the use of an alarm clock. It also said you should feel fairly energetic all day. Like I said earlier – this is definitely not how I feel in the morning. So whether you believe the above statement or not, here are some quick tips to help you get a better night’s sleep.

One thing to keep in mind is that you can’t “catch up” on your sleep. There is no magical sleep bank that allows you to withdraw or deposit any extra hours of sleep. That said, let’s move on!

Most adults require somewhere around 8 hours of solid uninterrupted sleep. Govern yourself accordingly! If you need to be up at 5 AM you really shouldn’t be up working until midnight.

I can hear my mother now telling me “I told you so”. Keep the same hours no matter what the day. If you normally get up at 6 during the week, try to keep the same routine on the weekend. Your body has an inner clock and its best not to disturb it.

If you find yourself having a difficult time getting to sleep, or staying asleep check your caffeine intake. If you’re having chocolate, tea, or coffee in the evening hours it could be the culprit.

Keep your room for sleep only. This means removing things like the TV and computer. Even reading can pose a problem for some people if the material is stimulating or you’re reading with your main room light on.

Your body is a pretty keen machine. It knows that dark means sleep. If you keep the lights in your home dimmed, or off in the evening, your body will recognize that it’s time to hit the sack. If you find yourself getting tired during the day, the opposite will also work so try opening some blinds or turning on a bright light.

Try not to exercise right before bed. Experts indicate that no exercise within 3 hours prior to your bedtime. Regular exercise though actually tends to increase our ability to find a restful sleep at night.

Turn your alarm clock away from you. If you wake up at night, looking at the clock can cause anxiety.

Instead of tossing and turning all night, get out of bed if you’ve been trying to fall asleep for longer than 30 minutes. Do something else and then come back to bed when you’re feeling sleepy.

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